It’s no secret that penis size is a concern for many men, especially those who have what might legitimately be considered a diminutive member. Such men may engage in expert penis care and possess an organ that is in supreme health – yet due to its modest dimensions, it may cause anxiety in its owner. For men with such concerns, the sex positions they choose can have a big impact on ultimate partner satisfaction.
Not so small
First, it’s important to be clear about this: even men who have a tool that by adult film standards might be considered a small penis are usually packing enough to more than satisfy their partners. Studies have demonstrated time and again that it’s the first 2-3″ inches of the vagina that are the most sensitive and that need the most direct stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. Most men are sufficiently hung to provide ample contact in this area.
However, when a man is modestly endowed, there are sex positions that can enable him to more easily and readily access those 2-3″ in the most favorable manner possible. Every man and woman is different, so finding the sex positions that work best for a couple can take some trial and error. But many couples may find that one or more of the following works well for them.
This is one of the easiest positions, as it is essentially a variation on the missionary position. As in that classic pose, the man lies on top of the woman, inserts his penis and begins thrusting. In this variation, however, the woman closes her legs after insertion and the man spreads his legs outside of hers. This position makes the vagina tighter, allowing for more intense stimulation. Some couples may want to try a variation in which the woman lies facedown, rather than on her back, and the man enters her from behind.
The spread eagle.
In this position, the male sits on his knees, legs spread far apart. The woman lies on her back, then lifts her legs in the air and spreads them far apart. The man supports the woman’s legs with his hands as he moves closer and enters her. This position allows many men to gain more unimpeded access to the vagina and so to thrust more deeply inside – a great benefit for a man with a small penis.
A traditional favorite in which a woman is on her hands and knees and the male penetrates from behind, this position is quite popular for modest men.
This calls for a bit of flexibility on the part of both partners but is often well worth it. The female lies face down, with her legs firmly on the bed but her torso and head bent down to the floor. (She may want to rest her head on a pillow.) The man lies on top of her to penetrate, after which she closes her legs tightly around him. Meanwhile, he is pushing his torso upwards as in the cobra yoga position. While there’s a lot of distance between partner’s faces, there’s a significant degree of closeness between their sex organs.